A Perfect Marriage

Jun 17, 2011 by

Our marriage isn’t perfect because we are perfect.

It isn’t perfect because I am the perfect wife

or because you are the perfect husband.

We are both so utterly imperfect,

So full of sin and brokenness

So lacking in love and tenderness

Our marriage isn’t perfect because we always please each other

and always seek the other’s interests first

It isn’t perfect because you have the perfect job

or because I am the perfect homemaker

Neither is our marriage perfect because we have a beautiful home

or because our children are perfectly obedient

No, if we were left to ourselves, left to our own abilities and qualities

Our marriage would be full of anger, sadness, despair, and longing

But thanks be to Christ the Lord of our marriage!

He lives through us, perfect and pure

He loves through us, tender and selfless

He upholds us, our strength and refuge

He parents through us, loving and patient

He is the only perfection in our marriage, the only thing right in our love

He has been our joy and our passion

and will be our commitment until the day we die.

I love you my Darling. Thank you for five wonderful years.

 

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5 Comments

  1. What a beautiful attitude about marriage. Happy Anniversary and may GOD bless you with many more happy years!

  2. Happy anniversary and congratulations!! I love that picture–the groomsmen and bridesmaids are cracking me up! (What are they looking at, anyway??)

    (June 17 is a great day to get married, I think–we’re celebrating 11 years today!)

    • desiringvirtue

      Yeah, who knows what they think they are looking at! Congratulations on 11 years!!!!! I love this time of the year, so many people celebrating their anniversaries…

  3. Amy

    Congratulations on your anniversary! I love the picture, and I hope you have many more wonderful years to grow together. This year is our 10th anniversary and God keeps showing us more than I knew possible.

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